You really don't see too many passive Phish-heads any more.  After the decline in popularity of "jam-bands" in the late 90's, you saw most of the casual Phish fans disappear.  The ones that remained are the adamant, "you-can-judge-me-however-you-want-man-I-don't-care" type of people with blonde dreadlocks, patchouli soaked patchwork shit, and no job.   Thus, the casual Phish fan that does still exist (probably with a beaded necklace and Columbia brand pants bought from REI) is a pussy afraid to show true colors.